I have been thinking a lot about the friendships I have and have had in the past, and wondering what my friendships say about me as a person.

I have a few friends that have very different views than I do morally and ethically.

I have a few friends who feel that cheating/having an affair on their partner is acceptable. (I do not support this behavior. Especially when I am friends with all parties involved.)

I have friends who believe that lying is acceptable. And I mean constant lies. Which I totally do not understand. What is the point in lying to someone that (a) knows better and (b) is eventually going to learn the truth or already knows the truth?

I just sit back and wonder what their behavior says about me as a person for being friends with them.

I cannot control what other people do and I understand that. But do you ever wonder how you became friends with people like this and what it says about you as a person? Or what others think of you for befriending these types of people?